INTP. If you stumble across an ENTJ, don't be too optimistic about getting him to open up. Adversely, ENTJs are goal-oriented individuals and become hyper-focused on their tasks and goals. For the first time in life, I really love the work, but on the same way, I hate that woman so much. Whenever there is debate or conflict or I have to correct someone or call a miatake to someones attention despite having read "how to win friends and influence people" and years of therapy, I still manage to rub people the worng way with my level of directness focus on the issue. Myers Briggs is the only accurate personality typology that I've encountered, and thats in part due to it's specificity, it's the only useful typology, as it can help you understand yourself and others. No they don't have to be mean but it my example is more exciting in this way. I must say, your insight and intuition are glorious in this article. I hope that when I'm older, the new generation of ENTJ women won't hold back,because women have been doing that for thousands of years and I think it's about time we stopped. They can quickly become distracted when they are inspired to pursue other interests. This, I feel, goes against the very nature of the time-sensitive "get things done and improve" nature of ENTJ. Part of that I'm certain is the natural way our types relate to each other about ideas. ENTJs often express their intuition by following their instincts in leadership and organizational practices. So - I dont fully buy into that aspect. But reading this, i find them all accurate/relatable and i hope i could find a way to make things better for me and my ENTJ mom knewing there are things she isn't capable of. ..same here..ENTJ-T and a Virgo..i am really having a hard time understanding my female friends who say i can't empathize with them..i connect more with my male friends who say that i have a "male" brain. The Five Love Languages is a registered trademark of The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, which has no affiliation with this site. At least we have something to pursue. I try and not let it get to me. I personally used to be like this. An extravert would help me out of my shell a bit, and a judging type would help me get things done and know my limits. But I discovered that it might affect my health and decesion making and learned how to control it. I've found horoscopes somewhat helpful in a "once you've exhausted the methods of rationality, you have nothing further to lose by using the methods of irrationality" kind of way. Too methodical. So you're better than other people? Irelate to this post and alot of the commentary. INTPs are intuitive individuals while ISTPs rely on their senses. Weve compiled a brief list of reasons that may explain why ENTJs often hate INTP personality types. Then it becomes very difficult to reach ENTJs, especially women, even though your feelings remain constant. 2-I'm also more energized when having a task to do than not doing anything lol. well as an artistic ENTJ I can tell you that it is very unlikely your plans will be made any less grandiose. If not I will endanger you as a form of revenge." SOPHIA. It's clear that I shouldn't work for someone else. I keep my ideas for myself, becaus she does not deserve them. This question is for testing whether or not you are a human visitor and to prevent automated spam submissions. So now that newly retired I have 2/3 of an empty space to fill. Strengths of the INTP and ENTJ Relationship 1. INFJs can be evil when they lack emotional maturity. Read More Are INFJs Sensitive And Easily Overwhelmed?Continue. I love ENTJs, don't really have time to analyze why right now though..I'll come back to this post tomorrow and edit in why. As an INTP, I'm constantly re-iterating and self judging. We fight. Which is why it's more confusing to find my true type! Lord knows the others are not. ENTJs may procrastinate because they are perfectionists, fear failure, or do not see any value in the relevant task. Are ISTP and INTP similar? Wow Im an ENTJ, and an Aries, and my name is also Mercedes. I'm not highly dominant & Commanding as said about entj types. Saying sorry admits a mistake on the ENTJ's part, and ENTJs believe that mistakes are to be expected, fixed and learned from so they don't repeat the blunder. Happy exploring! I originally posted this in another thread, but its topic was related to this one at the start and is starting to move closer. The details is always my downfall when it comes to anything, and I'm on my best when I have a person with an SF personality with me. So far iachieve milestonesthat others cant achieve.. Imjust enjoying it. You have to take the time to get to know them. The "women especially hate me" resonates with me. It is said that intuitive pereceivers have a turbulent/dreamy/dissociative type of gaze that's suggesitive of their scatterbrain naivete and lack of discipline, whilst intuitive judgers have a hardened gaze that's indicative of their maturity, exposure to hardship, and their capacity to overcome obstacles. With her dominant and determined nature, she pulls me down and this makes me an unhealthy INFP. I'm an ENTJ-A scorpio and feel misunderstood by everyone around me. He is a patince personality. I'm an ENTJ Aries 8w7. 100% agree. Recently told a peripheral friend my cold-hearted shoulder is a poor choice for commiserating;tears have no power over me and I don't feel sorry for people whomarinate in their problems, especially when they're very clever and more than capable of doing something about it. While these personality types can have their difficulties, it doesnt mean that they cant work well together. An INFJ is sensitive and can be easily overwhelmed in certain situations. This is not just a couch!'. INTP personality types, however, are more carefree and can often have a light-hearted approach. You basically just characterized all of the issues my girfriend and I a currently experiencing. The cognitive features go well with each other. Nevertheless, I seem to like them even though they can seem so overly critical. :) Sometimes I'm perceived to be such. In the grip of his inferior functions, an ENTJ will lose his extraverted thinking. The world is too small. After all Ive thought these all through myself and sometimes come to other conclusions. Have a great rest of your day! When I look at xNTJ eyes, even when you smile or laugh or try to project yourself as likable humans, I see nothing but self-loathing and anxiety. Can INTPs Work With Marketing? I will take the time to answer, even if really busy. I am abig fan of the INTJ personality type. Gemini, ENTJmale. INTPs and ENTJs both tend to be private about their emotions and it can take a long time for them to open up. Steven Melendy, PsyD., is a Clinical Psychologist who received his doctorate from The Wright Institute in Berkeley, California. I think it's my tone because I automatically use a monotonic tone when things are unorganized. Maybe the real fact is THAT because you never try to listened to them in the first place when YOU should listen. For me I always admit the mistake and never flee to face it infront of every one. INTPs and ENTJs are cynical, critical, and love discussing high-level topics such as government, education, science, and spirituality. I am kind and friendly. I think I'm an ENFP but I have ADHD. They say an ENTJ/INTJ match is a good combination. Couldn't agree more. Although a well-developed ENTJ can enjoy a healthy relationship with any type, it is generally thought that they are most compatible with ISTP and INTP. ENTJs are highly independent and try to navigate their life by relying on their own talents, ambitions, and hard work. We are compensated for referring traffic and business to Amazon and other companies linked to on this site. I chose "is" because I didn't want to argue his historic existence, and it's obvious that he exists as a character at least. The guys have done nothing to tryand suppress me, they see me as an equal. Theyre the trendsetters and trendspotters, the ones who get the party started and the crowd hyped. I see that every day. Again. ENTJs are very protective of their emotions and have a more extroverted approach. I merely want to ask why you as ENTJ (It was ENTJ, right?) Coupled with MBTIwhich I understand intricately, you can really read a person and anticipate their behavior, not their destiny. INTPs often wear their heart on their sleeve. ~Me. They are introverts, thinkers, and perceivers instead of extroverts, feelers, or judgers. I think that was my first taste of depression. i've got an entire manual of how to handle most situations. I think a lot of ENTJ women are mis-typed and don't answer the questions honestly. I have have very high expectational for myself as well as others, and believe in the golden rule and "do unto others." They are the kind of people who will work hard to shove their work into someone from their past in the face! 1. Things've gotten pretty exciting since and yes, I don't care much if they don't like me but funny fact is.. theye like me more that way so enjoy who you are.. Being a girl in a male dominated academic school track is hard in the first place but honestly I love the challenge and knowing I'll come out on top is a fantastic feeling. Be you. It paves way for mistakes to be perpetuated, and that's a waste of time. 3. Here is Why (+Tips to Improve), Taurus Sun Pisces Moon: Artistic Intuition, Taurus Sun Aquarius Moon: True Feelings Of Rebellion. My significant other is like a lightning rod for rationality - he gets utterly confused when asked to lead with the heart. Even womans. Although ESFJs are not typically considered a creative personality type, many examples of ESFJs have gone on to be successful musicians and/or artists. Maybe could add: had trouble sleeping, as I think a lot about how to improve things, are you guys also have insomnia? I've never felt more at home than I do right now reading this comment section. Imagine an apple cut in half, both sides cut face up. Either that, or they'll look at you like you're a worm. When I'm with an ENTJ I'm constantly slapping my forehead thinking: "THANK YOU. Only good in a work/project when they can teaming up. The INTP is excellent at reminding ENTJs of their biases and potential holes in their ideas. INTPs like that ENTJs are masters of efficiency, capable of accomplishing anything they set their minds to. There's no need for you to rub it in. I definitely think outside the box and that has been the motivation for most of my life's successes. He believes strongly in the importance of self-care, good friendships, and humor whenever possible. Full disclosure: I'm married to an ENTJ(according to the16-type personality systemdeveloped byIsabel Briggs Myers). Although they are not lazy, INTPs are not fond of routines. As I understand it: - ESTJs have the best sense of what is correct, until proven otherwise - INTJs are the "smartest"*, until proven otherwise IME that "default" sense is pretty common in both types -- and that can bother some people. Actually from what I know I'm the only woman in the southeast United State that do what I do, and would like to say I'm damn good at it. tom_burk 22 hr. Honestly, believe what you want, just my 2 cents. Don't approach them if you need to vent or rally against the injustices you're facing. INTPs also admire ENTJs insight and the ability to actually do something about their shared ideas. INTPs and ENTJs make a fantastic team. I do believe depression and peer pressure can dissolve someones personality type. I'm an Aries too. INTPs find trouble with ENTJs unrealistic ideas, which are often shallow and not in-depth. How do you know youe teacher was an ENTJ?? I go for that length just to tell him which one way he should take so he will be better at least in student's eyes (I am student, I know better) and make everything fair, but he refused instead. ", "I want freedom for the full expression of my personality.". It makes conversations trite, it shuts down interesting discussions before I even feel like they've started. LOL! They're so focused on the big picture that the 'details thing' does them in. Traveller, there are no roads. For about 10 years, I have been practicing and writing about spirituality, astrology, and self-development. Being the same, Sagittarius and ENTJ well.. I am highly educated in a highly tech icalprofession. It is said that intuitive pereceivers have a turbulent/dreamy . You're know-it-alls and you believe your limited experience entitles you to opine on just about anything. 6- true but I've learnt through the hard way sometimes I have to hold back especially on my thoughts. Ugh, it's a blessing and a curse that we are so rare. I do believe that it makes my "bedside manner" very empathic. They do not want to admit they are jealous or that they feel threatened. As an male ENTJ, I want the female ENTJs to know and understand that we adore you like a breath of fresh air. I am just interested. That is when there is pure confidence because their reasons for doing things comes from them and not the outside. I love the article. Every single woman in the world, no matter the culture and background, will be drawn to ENTJ types. I suggest you look at the magnetic fields of our solar system, and the pulls they have on this planet, and on those material beings (humans) who are affected differently by the various pulls. I share my feelings a lot, because it makes me look more friendly, and it doesno harm to me. As INTJ female divorcing an XNTP after 20+ years, of all types I've dated this year, I'vedecided I may filter my futuredating pool for ENTJ-only as f**k - thank you - the TRUTH! Blimey. Still most people would not even question this, because it is so easy to be victimized by us people. Its the wisdom of life. I think INTP and ENTJ works well together because the INTP is a logical and rational thinker, and the ENTJ is an artistic doer. I too am an ENTJ and an Aries. But as much as I like ENTJs, I couldn't eat a whole one. Your diplomacy is really an offsetting excuse and a refusal to admit you're a shit person. The GF left me due to her family not liking me (probably the forcefulness of my personality). I am a gemini (saggi moon) ENTJ. INTPs see ENTJs as logical thinking powerhouses who are original and honest. In the best-case scenario, INTPs and ENTJs complement each other in marvelous ways and are excellent partners in crime. If the only thing you are seeking in a relationship is to have a good time then yes, an INTJ is probably a good choice for an INTP. Instead, they crave space in their relationship. Their common trait of intuition can help them relate and empathize with each other. They dont have to carefully package their words for fear of hurting someone. INTPs may trust ENTJs who allow them the freedom to be a little spontaneous and adventurous; ENTJs should be patient with INTPs, understanding their need for experience. INTPs trust ENTJs better when theyre allowed to be spontaneous and adventurous, not preoccupied with how their ideas and actions will be interpreted. As a result, INTPs focus on logic and ignore their feelings and those of others and they usually offend others. Wow!!!!!! That being said, I am certainly protective of my deepest feelings and will take some time to fully get everything out I want to say and make sure its an appropriate time and place to say them. I think that is not good. INTPs lead with Introverted Thinking - a function that seeks to verify, rationalize and understand its environment without bias. Here are the 10 "unforgivable sins" of ENTJs . with a little commentary as to why they're not the heartless, bossy, puppy kickers they're made out to be. Finding a disciple that supports the community is the key to overcoming their creative shortcomings. For more information on the Myers Briggs Type Indicator assessment, please go here. The Fora platform includes forum software by XenForo, VerticalScope Inc., 111 Peter Street, Suite 600, Toronto, Ontario, M5V 2H1, Canada. INTPs appreciate ENTJs ability to lead and get things done. And who should apologize for trying too hard? ENTJ's procrastination tendencies can be assisted by seeking value in the activities, breaking up the task into smaller tasks, and implementing completion rewards. Im not saying this from statistical proof but I would wager that the most highly successful ENTJs were liklyhighly successful because of an INTJat their side. These things you say do descibe YOUR experience and yours alone. I say sorry a lot of times, when I really understand that I've made a fault. Do I am whiny because I told you how to do something that you are clearly wrong and blind?! Enraged at me and accusing me as childish and whiny. And, at 53% Introverted, 47% Extraverted, my own personality is running dangerously close to the ENTJ cliff edge. 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